thankful for my friends
With thanks and gratitude being top of mind this week because of the celebration of US Thanksgiving that has just passed, it made me realize how grateful I am to have terrific friends–and friends who love to travel!
Sure, I’m fortunate to be able to travel the world for chocolate. But it wouldn’t be nearly as much fun, or fiscally possible for that matter, if I didn’t have the companionship of my dear friends who not only provide me with a sounding board, a few laughs, guidance, and a tasting companion, but also help bear some of the costs associated with some of our amazing experiences while Chocolatouring the planet.
So in this post, I’d like to introduce you to the amazing women who have accompanied me over the past five years as I’ve made my way through a dozen countries in my research to date.
Kathe Lieber was the first to jump on the chocolate train. Kathe is a writer and editor who lives in Montreal. She was happy to arrange a mini-Chocolatour of Montreal for me. Kathe’s profound knowledge of and love for fine chocolate made my 2009 journey to Belgium, France, and Switzerland a most memorable journey. Kathe is also credited with suggesting that the title for my book be “Chocolatour.” So thanks to Kathe, for your friendship, support, and inspiration.
Virginia Heffernan is an amazing friend who accompanied me to Spain, Italy, and Holland in 2010, and also to Peru and Ecuador in 2012. Virginia is a Toronto-based writer who specializes in writing about geology and mining. But she also loves fine chocolate and wine, and kept me smiling through some challenging situations, including a mud slide in Ecuador and bug bites in Peru.
Suzanne Boles lives in London, Ontario, and also has made two Chocolatours with me to date. We visited London, England, together in 2011, and Hawaii in 2014. Suzanne has persevered through health and personal challenges, and via her impassioned writing, is helping others deal with grief. Suzanne also specializes in writing business profiles and has a book or two in the works.
Mary-Anne Ignaszewski is a long-time friend I met through the insurance industry when I worked for Manitoba Public Insurance. She loves to travel, and when my husband Reg had to back out of our trip to St. Lucia, Mary-Anne stepped forward to join me on this amazing journey of luxurious chocolate exploration in December, 2012. I was extremely grateful for that, as although I have done several trips on my own, I really enjoy the companionship of a dear friend.
Mary Ann Porter (who prefers not to have her photo online) accompanied me to California on a Chocolatour in late 2013. I’ve known Mary Ann longer than any of the other friends I’ve done chocolate travel with (we met in 1974) and both our lives have made many twists and turns since the early days, but we’ve always held onto our friendship. The California Chocolatour was special in that it also introduced me in-person to a dear but relatively new online friend. Susan Cooper was kind enough to extend her incredible hospitality inviting us to stay with her while we explored chocolate in the California’s wine country. What a tasty journey that was!
And most recently, Christine Peets of Napanee, Ontario, joined me in a Chocolatour of Kingston, Ontario, immediately followed by a trip to Miami, Florida, where I received my Readers’ Favorite award for Chocolatour: A Quest for the World’s Best Chocolate (volume I), and where we discovered some fantastic chocolate in the process. How wonderful it was to have a friend with me in Miami when I experienced the highlight (to date!) of my writing career. Christine is a writer and author who loves to travel, and is a joy to travel with–as are all of the amazing women named in this post.
My sincere thanks to each one of them for making the many journeys over the past five years INCREDIBLE.
Are you like me in that you prefer to travel with a friend, or do you prefer to celebrate the joys of solo travel? I hope you’ll share a comment here, and that you’ll join me back on this blog the week of December 8th for our next new post.
Lovely post Doreen and you have indeed met some great women. I certainly truly value my internet friends yourself included and feel so grateful to have found such a supportive community. Thanks for sharing your friends with us all
Thx, AK. Glad you enjoyed the post.
We are indeed fortunate to be able to establish meaningful friendships that begin as supportive online relationships. I wonder if men have the same great results as we women do?
Hi Everyone,
I enjoyed your post Doreen — particularly because I know many of your travel buddies. I normally only travel on my own when I’m going to visit family and friends in Saskatchewan. Otherwise I travel with my husband. We would like to travel with another couple sometimes, but it has never worked out.
Irene
Hi Irene: I just realized I hadn’t responded to your comment. Thx for it.
Yes, travelling with another couple is usually fun. It’s worked out well for us except for a couple of occasions. One was when the wife of the other couple kept us waiting FOREVER while she did her makeup and hair. Eventually, we just had to say, we’ll meet you at breakfast and not sit around waiting for her while she prettied up. And the other time was when friends invited us to share their timeshare. We were SUPPOSED to have a 2-bedroom suite for the week. When we got there we were told that only 1BR’s were available. 4 people, 1BR and one bathroom didn’t work out too well!
Hi Donna and thanks for your comment.
Yes, I am indeed fortunate to have such great friends who love to travel! I’ve learned that every single moment may not go smoothly, or that an expected habit may come to light, but it’s invariably a minor situation that is easily addressed with a kind comment. I’ve found that respect and compassion are the keys to any successful friendship.
You are fortunate to have such good friends. And to be able to travel with them. Not all good friends are good travel companions, because styles and preferences for travel can be quite different. It is a blessing to have terrific friends you enjoy traveling with.
Nicely written (as always) and a wonderful idea to celebrate good friends. I’m a big fan of companionship in travel. I’ve had what would have been mundane trips turn into beautiful explorations because I was wit a friend. Cheers to to having and acknowledging wonderful friends. 🙂
Thx, Debra. It’s so true. When you’re with a friend, any situation is better. I do see the benefits of solo travel (i.e. you’re more likely to meet and get to know other travellers as you’re not focusing on conversation with the one you’re with) but I’ve also found that system can work well if you keep the conversation open, and welcome others to join in.
Doreen — aren’t you fortunate to have such wonderful friends. I’m lucky, too, to have friends that I cherish. I’m not a world traveler like you, but I do visit friends and we have a grand time together and I can tell by your photos that you do, too!
Thx for your comment, Jeannette. My life has been totally enriched because of my friendships. I don’t have a large nuclear family, so have always turned to my friends for companionship, guidance, and love.
What a bunch of fun-loving and lucky ladies!
I’m definitely as ‘lucky’ as they are, Linda. Each trip has been special and unique because of the personalities involved. 🙂
Hi Doreen
Your travels sound fabulous. One day you must come and visit me in Victoria. Together I’m sure we could find more than enough chocolate and chocolate lore to keep us busy!
That would be awesome, Pat! I’ve done some chocolate exploration on Vancouver Island,but I know there is much more to explore. Hopefully … we’ll have the opportunity to meet someday soon. Cheers!
Aw, what a wonderful post and tribute to some great women. Thank you for the mention my friend. Following you on your chocolate travels is such fun. Sampling some of your recommendations is even more fun. 🙂
Thanks, Susan. It was really fun sampling some of the wines you felt were worth exploring, and tasting the chocolate recommendations from the winemakers. Definitely enhanced my visit to the beautiful wine country of California. I only wish I’d had more time!
Thanks so much for the mention, Doreen. It was my pleasure.
I am so glad you’ve been able to include your close friends in your journeys. I feel blessed as well. Not only did I have the opportunity to spend time with you, but also learned so much about chocolate and had an amazing time sampling the best chocolates in the world! Not to mention staying in lovely hotels and enjoying some magnificent sightseeing too.
I’m so pleased to count you as one of my closest friends.
Thanks so much, Suzanne. For everything. It’s really enhanced my global chocolate travels by having intelligent and well-seasoned travellers along with me to share the journey and help me look at things with a logical, unbiased eye.
Generally, I travel with my husband. It’s great, as we get along really well and are used to spending lots of time together alone. My last big trip I did on my own, as it was basically of interest to me and not much to him.
I used to do solo trips and loved being on top of the myriad details you need at your fingertips. I’m a list-maker at heart.
Preparing for this trip, it came to my attention that because he’s mentally very sharp and retains info amazingly, I’d been leaving absolutely everything to him. Except the packing, of course! Had anything happened to him on our trips, I would have had only a vague notion of what was supposed to be happening. It was a refresher course, indeed.
Bottom line: I prefer traveling with my husband, but will keep in mind that I need to use it or lose it.
Thx so much for starting the conversation going, Linda! Yes, isn’t it interesting how sometimes, we leave the details to our travelling companion, and then realize we haven’t got a clue of what might be necessary to move forward! I’m not the best navigator when it comes to public transportation, so I’ve been really grateful that each one of my travelling companions has been helpful in that regard.